A good friend of mine recently got a surprising report from his doctor. He had been battling some physical limitations for some time, nothing seemed particularly serious. He had had a cancerous growth successfully removed from his leg some time ago and was undergoing the customary precautionary follow-up treatment. He had moved on to pursue life again as usual. Then a few days ago his doctor dropped a bombshell out of the blue. His cancer had returned, and had spread throughout his body, including…

One of my roommates in college was an amateur magician who had mastered a handful of coin tricks. Since he would occasionally practice on his old roomie, I learned to do a couple of them myself.  One was called the French Drop, which, like all magic tricks, fools the observer as the magician focuses on one hand (or some “shiny trinket,” etc.) while the other hand is hiding the coin. I have often thought that Satan, the master deceiver, has done the same thing…

We have now come to the last four verses of Proverbs 31, and in them we see that there is an earthly reward for the faithful wife who follows in the footsteps of the homemaker portrayed in this chapter.  Make no mistake, God’s love, salvation, gifts, talents and abilities do not come to us because we have earned them by our obedience to Him. In like manner, neither do His blessings and rewards. They are all by grace alone, completely free and totally unmerited,…

All of us are naturally good at some things and not so good at others, and that is not an accident. We are each constructed perfectly, but differently, just as God desired, and He made no mistakes when He was personally “fashioning me within my mother’s womb” (Psalm 130:13). Paul’s list of motivational gifts given to us by God in the womb in Romans 12:3-8 reflects the full range of the diversity He has built into our makeup. The gifts in this list can…

One of the characteristics of youth is a feeling of invincibility. The young feel as though they will live forever. The reality of the transitory nature of life has not dawned upon them as yet. “As for man, his days are like grass…for the wind passes over it and it is gone.” (Psalm 103:15, 16). An understanding of the certainty that each of us has but a finite number of days to live is truth that is hard for the young to grasp just…

“OK, Robert. You have discussed cooking, clothing and cleaning (you didn’t discuss that specifically even though you implied it) in previous postings, and although her tasks may be more challenging than I thought, let’s face it—it’s still cooking, clothing and cleaning—what all house wives have to do. That’s not the challenging life I want.” At this point, I love that response! The virtuous wife’s involvement in these next ventures must be a shock to the reader who thinks a homemaker’s only activities are “housework.” …

I am not a “Help, Help, we’ll all be killed” kind of person, and I have been a slow responder to the Wu Han virus scare. For example, I felt like a fool going out with Jill at 6:00 this morning to Walmart so we could get two rationed, packages of toilet paper. However, the e-mail I am forwarding to you has rattled my cage a bit, and caused me to rethink our virus strategy. Please, please give this a read – it is…

“She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises. She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day.”  (Proverbs 31:14, 15).  In ancient cultures, food preparation was a constant, never-ending task for the homemaker. There was no pre-packaged or frozen food available, and the job often demanded long, even pre-dawn hours to accomplish her task.  The evening meal was the crown jewel of this food-preparation phase of the homemaker’s responsibilities, because it represented the one time…

A much publicized feminist fiction today is that wives will be limited, hindered and will suffer as indentured servants if they become stay-at-home moms. The final nail in the coffin to bury this myth is Proverbs 31:10-31. This proverb begins by describing what a biblical wife means to her husband in the role to which God has created her—to be his helpmate in the ruling task to which God has called him. “Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above…

As I checked my favorite news aggregator one morning this week, I came across an article that began with this sentence: “The nuclear family must be abolished in favor of a ‘feminist future,’ says one feminist writer.”  The article continued with, “In an article posted on Vice News, feminist writer Sophie Lewis proposed replacing the traditional family with a shared ‘surrogacy’ model in which ‘the labor of making new human beings is shared among all of us, ‘mother’ no longer being a natural category.’”…